English was not my first language, so I struggled in school. My report cards always read the same: “Nice kid, isn’t going to amount to much.” One day, out of desperation, my mother sent me to school with candy to help me make friends. It worked like a charm - until the candy was gone that is. That is when the “friends” disappeared. That’s also when I realized that I was on my own to figure things out.
What began as a journal to help me process challenging experiences in my life and career evolved into a reflective memoir and how-to guide to empower others. I delve into the limiting beliefs that we frequently face in life and share key strategies to develop an area overlooked: emotional intelligence. Some of the intended take-a-ways:
- Improved self-esteem
- Diminished Imposter Syndrome
- Reduction of limiting beliefs
- Enhanced emotional intelligence
Table of Contents:
- The Candy's Gone: Now What?
- Don't Look: I'm an Imposter
- Accidently Joining the Military: Never Say, "I can't"
- What's Wrong With Me? The Voice in My Head
- Learning: Life Has Rules
- The Likeability Factor: Understanding Humans
- Becoming a Recruiter: Ethically Hacking the Job Market
- Breaking Through: The Terror Barrier
- Brace for Impact: You Will Fail
- Destiny Is in Your Hands: Just Imagine